Our
beloved member, Giju John, a parishioner of St. Peter's and St.
Paul's parish, Westbury, NY, and an upcoming senior in high
school, passed away in an apparent drowning.
The Northeast Region just completed its "back to school"
conference over the weekend, and after church on Sunday at Sts.
Peter's and Paul's a few youth went to attend the St. Mary's day
celebrations at our Lynbrook parish. Afterward these same few
went to the beach to
beat the heat and relax.
Unfortunately, while Giju (16) and his 21 year old brother Ginu
were swimming together, the waters began to roughen. Both
brothers were in trouble, but were together as the undercurrents
and waves grew dangerous. Ginu tried his best to hold on to
his brother, but
eventually the waves overcame him and the two were separated.
Lifeguards were able to rescue Ginu, but after an extensive search,
Giju was not to be found.
Monday, August 15th, Giju's body was found around noon time.
His funeral was conducted on Thursday morning.
A prayer service was conducted in the New York area. Another was
conducted in Houston, where Giju's first cousin and family lives.
Giju was by all accounts a very quiet child who had expressed
interest in the medical field. He did not like to argue or fight. He
readily expressed a loving spirit and a Christian servant's heart. He and
his family only
recently arrived in
the U.S. Nevertheless, they all became integral members of their
parish
and the youth association.
The John family require our prayers and support. In the process of
grief, all of us will question why this occurred and why our prayers
were not effective in preventing this tragedy.
An answer is not readily available, yet the need to find meaning from
these events is strong.
Surely Giju, a person of faith surrounded by the faithful, would want
us to draw closer to God as we grieve and move forward in His
strength. Gigu now fully knows that in Jesus death has no final
sting. Death is a door all of us will walk through, barring our
Lord's return.
Ironically, this is a day of celebrating victory over death. Today is
the festival of the Assumption. We commemorate the gathering up of
St. Mary's body into heaven. Mary had died, just like all those
before and after her, but our Lord chose to grant her resurrection
and entrance into heaven in a miraculous way.
How happy Giju must be, to celebrate this occasion in the company of
all the Saints, and our Lord who knows death (and life!) quite
intimately!
For us who remain, and especially Giju's family, the loss is too
great to bare. As we take the next several days to publicly celebrate
Giju mon's life, let us remember that we all have an appointment to
see Giju at the appropriate time as we accept God's plan and mission
for our lives.
Youth especially have no use for thinking about death until it
strikes in a fashion such as this. Start now to build treasures in
heaven.
Giju must miss out on items that we will take for granted, such as
success in career, family milestones, and community service. Hence,
when we are granted the opportunity to fulfill our dreams, we must
hold Giju's memory dear and conduct ourselves in an honorable
fashion, knowing that we are being watched from above.
We may never understand the full meaning of a loved one's demise, but
by living meaningfully their memory may best be honored.
Let us all remember to pray for Ginu, Uncle, Auntie, and family as
they live through this tragedy. May the fellowship of the Holy Spirit
be with them. Once the public mourning is concluded, these poor
brethren must bare their grief at home. Let us not forget them!
God bless us all. |